On Self Centeredness

In the year 1530, Copernicus proved that the earth revolved around the sun. Preposterous! I know it revolves around me. At least that’s the way most of us behave. We tend to be very self-centered. How does that affect our behavior? We begin to think we are entitled. Others should respect me. I should make more money. My time should be more important than others’. We begin to act as if we were more important than anyone else. And that leads to unethical and immoral behaviors.

Repeat this: Starting with me, Copernicus will be a sobering reminder. I will see myself in proper perspective with regards to others.

The Blessings of Receiving

Common wisdom says, "It's better to give than to receive." I agree, but receiving can be a blessing to you and all those around you. Most of us are not very good at receiving, and so, we rob others of the joy of giving. Look around and note how others give of themselves. At work, maybe it's a little thing like always cleaning up in the morning, or anticipating your needs before you have to ask. Now, simply say “thank you.” Make it clear that you are blessed by them. Repeat this: Starting with me, receiving will be just as blessed as giving. I will let others feel valuable by accepting their gifts. For more tips and information, visit www.swimstartingwithme.com.