On Saying No to Your Loved Ones

The subject of far too many TV shows and movies is the dad (usually) who disappoints his child by promising to be there and then letting work get in the way. If this happens to you more than a few times a year, you have a balance problem. But short of that, there are times when you have to just say, “No” to your loved ones. Here’s how to do it with a minimum of damage. First anticipate, and don’t promise if you’re not sure you can deliver. Second, as early as possible, communicate directly with your loved one. Be honest and direct. Reaffirm your love. Third, after the missed event, inquire about it with genuine interest. Repeat this: Starting with me, family relationships will always be valued more highly than work. For more tips and information, visit http://www.swimstartingwithme.com.